It seems pretty straightforward, the concept of wedding bands. Two bands worn by two people that make up one union, or, perhaps a better visual, two bands that fit together like puzzle pieces completing one picture. Traditionally speaking, wedding bands came in sets, crafted from the same material, with the bride’s ring being a slightly smaller and daintier version of the groom’s band. These days, it’s on an upward trend to mix and match weddings bands, with each band unique to the wearer’s personality. While choosing the perfect wedding band is hopefully less stressful than choosing the engagement ring, keep reading for our list of pros and cons when it comes to deciding if you want matching weddings bands or not. After all, these bands are two that you and your spouse will be wearing for a very long time.
For years, the choice for matching wedding bands was a non-negotiable one. Wearing the same ring, or almost the same, was a sign of your unwavering commitment, a symbol that the two of you were in it together. Wearing matching bands is also the most convenient option. Especially if you and your partner share the same style, this makes one less decision when it comes to wedding planning if you both have the same band. Some couples opt to have matching bands uniquely crafted to fit their story or tastes. So, while the bands still match, there is that personal twist while still honoring the relationship’s unique style.
What happens if the bands don’t match, does this lessen the commitment? On the contrary! As more and more people have different lifestyle preferences or occupations, this may call for different rings. The biggest benefit to having mismatched wedding bands is that you each get a ring that speaks to your aesthetic and personal tastes. These can be practical choices, too. Perhaps you are an outdoorsy kind of person while your spouse-to-be works in healthcare. You probably want a silicone band to swap out for a metal band while your partner may stick with a metal band, just keep it low-profile. It comes down to personal taste, too. Perhaps you prefer the look of white gold with your skin tone, while platinum looks better with your partner. Who says you both can’t have it your way?
On a final note, you may be wondering if your wedding band should match your engagement ring. Consider the same rules that apply to your wedding bands apply here, as well! It’s becoming less and less popular for the bride to have a wedding band that matches their engagement ring. Don’t shy away from combining different metals, widths, designs or stones, if that speaks to you! You can work with a jeweler you trust to create a band that will complement your ring without having to be a perfect match. Again, visualize it as way to express your personal style while still honoring your commitment to your spouse.
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